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33-year-old Efrat Ziv specializes in research-based women's sexuality and is the owner of the blog and podcast "Feminist". She's Married with one child and lives in Tel Aviv. 3 View gallery Efrat Ziv ( Photo: Nadav Meir ) Hi Efrat, let's talk about trends and fashions in sex.

These have always existed, but the availability and popularity of pornography have maximized them. What is your position on this matter? "Basically, I would divide it into two: trends that can diversify our sex life and open up possibilities, and trends that inherently regiment us to one type of sexuality or one specific appearance. Of course, sometimes the same trend can play a double role.



" Can you give us an example. "Take, for instance, female ejaculation or 'squirting'. On one hand, these are natural, healthy, and normal phenomena.

Exposure to them can lead to exploring our bodies and their ability to enjoy perhaps a different and new kind of pleasure. On the other hand, the increase in their frequency in porn can create pressure to perform as we see on the screen - whether it's internal pressure or pressure applied by our partner." So how should one manage this? "It all depends on the approach.

Is my approach 'this is how I should behave, look, and perform' – in which case it already regiments me – or is my approach 'I want to explore this or that touch or stimulation to see if it feels good to me'. The problem arises when I think I should ejaculate, when I am sure I should be hairless in the v.

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