A man has taken to Reddit to seek advice on a complex marital issue. After seven years of marriage , he discovered his wife had been having an affair for over half a year. Despite the initial shock and devastation, they managed to work through their problems with extensive marriage counseling.
In an attempt to level the playing field, his wife offered him a 'hall pass' for each month she was unfaithful. He shared: "It was a shocking and devastating thing obviously. She offered me one hall pass for each month of her affair.
" 'My neighbor is threatening to sue me for $27,000 over his lack of enjoyment of his yard' 'I told my sister her baby name is weird — I'm trying to save her child from bullying' The hall pass came with specific conditions. She requested to not know the use of hall pass unless she asks, but if she asks, he should answer honestly and in detail. Protection is a must, and there should be no emotional connection with the other woman.
He did take advantage of the hall pass, sleeping with two different women three times each. Following this and the counseling, their relationship returned to normal. It's been five years since the original infidelity.
"It helped me subside the resentment I had towards her. That is just how "getting even" feels I guess." However, when his wife recently asked about the hall passes, he told her everything, as she requested.
Now she's upset with him. Don't miss..
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