A man has been left baffled after his Tinder match suggested a first date weeding her garden, leaving him to question whether she's a walking 'red flag'. The 25-year-old shared how he hit it off with a woman, 24, on the dating app - and when he popped the question for a date, she invited him over for a spot of gardening. She reckoned that pulling up weeds was a chill way to chat and bond, but he's worried it might be a massive 'red flag' and is torn about whether to take her up on the offer.
On Reddit, he wrote: "She's extremely pretty and we have a lot in common and I'm really interested in her. She has some pictures of her gardening in her profile and I was asking her questions about that so it didn't come out of nowhere. "The conversation was going really well so I asked if she wanted to get to know each other in person, she said yes, and asked if I wanted to come over and help her weed her garden.
I said 'Haha, as a first date?' and she responded saying yes, it's a relaxing activity to talk and get to know someone, plus she could really use some help with it since we've had a lot of rain lately. "I honestly don't care what the first date is and don't mind weeding, would happily do whatever to get a chance to spend some time with her, but I'm wondering if it's a red flag that she's kind of asking me to help her with a chore as a first date?" While some social media users firmly suggested he should go on the gardening date, others interpreted this as a promising 'green flag.
