We all dream of the day our partner gets down on one knee and asks us that all-important question - but this man's request wasn't what his girlfriend was expecting. Everybody wants something different from a relationship . Not all of us explicitly want sex, while many others have a desire to explore things like open relationships and polyamory to fulfil their needs.
As long as you and your partner both consent to the way your relationship operates, there's no right or wrong way to do things. However, one woman has been left gobsmacked after her boyfriend "popped the question" about something she wasn't expecting to hear from him - whether she'd be willing to have a threesome. The woman said she had partners in the past ask her about inviting someone else into the bedroom and she always said no, as it's something she "cannot do".
Even when she was married in the past, her ex-husband cheated on her when she denied his request for a threesome. Now, the woman is in a relationship with someone who "cared for her deeply", and with whom she has "explored everything intimately". But still, he eventually asked her for a threesome and she had to be firm with her boundaries.
In a post on Reddit , she wrote: "I put down my boundary, and it kept coming up. I would say no and no and no." Her partner told her he feels "ostracised" by her decision to stay monogamous, but doesn't want to "lose" her after she said she would break up with him so that he could "go and experience what he wants" w.
