My husband is always too tired for sex. I’ve tried waking him up in the morning, waiting until he wakes up, grabbing him after work but before bedtime, suggesting we go to bed early, etc., etc.
But nothing and no time seems to be a “good” time. He’s always “too tired.” What am I supposed to do? He’s given me no reason to believe there’s anything else going on.
We have a good relationship otherwise, both happy in our work life, no issues with friends or family currently. Do you have any suggestions for me? There are many ways your husband could satisfy you, and you him, without having sex. And there are ways to keep the connection strong during this drought if non-sexual touch doesn’t work either.
First, you must address the elephant in the room. It’s important you talk to your husband and get him to explain what he means when he says he’s too tired. Is he getting enough sleep? Is he getting restful, recharging sleep? Or does he perhaps have sleep issues that haven’t come to light, such as sleep apnea? Perhaps he has underlying stress he’s not mentioning, anxiety, pain, other health issues that are also undetected.
Once you’ve figured out the reason for his constant tiredness, then you can work on your sexual intimacy. I can’t stand my sister’s new bestie. She never smiles, rarely speaks to me or our other sibling and just gives us the creeps.
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