My husband and I work together in a large business. He clearly fancies a woman there – I can tell by how he watches her . He brings her up in conversation and says he feels sorry for her, as her husband doesn’t treat her the way he treats me.
She isn’t in a bad marriage at all, it’s just his opinion. I broached the subject with him as it was upsetting and humiliating me at work. He laughed at the idea and says I’m the only one for him, but I know by how he reacted that he isn’t being honest.
love him, I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t cheat on me and I understand you can find someone attractive (that’s normal) and not act on it. So how do I reconcile knowing that he likes her, is probably not being honest with me about it because he knows it would upset me, and get over myself? Eleanor says: The fact this is normal doesn’t mean you have to like it. Nobody likes an occasion to ask, “What does she have that I don’t?” Often the irritating, insurmountable answer is that she has something you just can’t have, not with all the effort in the world: novelty.
My partner concealed he had more than one ex-wife. Should I be nervous about our future? | Leading questions Read more Crushes often aren’t about who the other person is or what they look like or do. It’s not much to do with what they are at all.
It’s to do with what they aren’t: they aren’t known, aren’t familiar. Attraction is so much to do with possibility, with what we don’t know, that some.
