@JESSY: For the past two months, I’ve been employed in a company where I’ve developed a strong admiration for one of my colleagues. She embodies qualities that I find particularly admirable — dedicated, collaborative and well-liked by everyone around her. However, there’s a significant hurdle in expressing my feelings — she’s already in a committed relationship.
Adding to the complexity of the situation is our shared history from our college days — I ghosted her. My being immature is no excuse. Despite hoping that my feelings would just dissipate, they’ve only intensified with the passing of time.
How should I approach this situation? DJ: Cutting someone off without explanation can weigh heavy on the heart. It’s like leaving a wound untreated, festering without any attempt at healing. I’m glad she bounced back and found the love she deserves.
Dude, just three sentences into my response and you know where my bias lies. Ghosting someone who once had a special place in your heart can seem totally careless. And while I don’t agree with what you did, we all make mistakes.
So, who am I to pass judgement, right? Let’s dive into the concept of ghosting for a sec. It’s like the “Post-it” breakup of this generation. Sadly, it’s becoming way too common these days.
Acknowledging your feelings is a solid move, no doubt. Congrats. And it’s just as important to approach it with some self-compassion too, bro.
What really went down? Was it because there was a.
