NETFLIX’s Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Scandal exposes the dangers of illicit affairs, after the website was hacked. But Paul, 63, who has been unfaithful throughout his 30-year marriage, tells Yasmin Harisha, it’s the tip of the iceberg . .
. "WHEN I got married I vowed to stay faithful — even though I’d cheated on previous girlfriends. But within five years I’d broken my promise by having my first affair when I was 39.
After we’d had our two children my wife lost interest in sex and I felt like I was going mad. I’ve got a high sex drive but hers had stalled. I asked a friend whether it was normal and he said yes, then admitted he’d had affairs.
Since then, over the three decades my wife and I have been married, I’ve cheated with over 20 women. THE first affair, like many, started at work. I work in marketing and a married colleague made it clear she was interested in me, by making suggestive remarks and being tactile when we were chatting.
The first time we had sex we were at a conference so did it in a hotel room. After that we’d romp in the office , after hours. I got a buzz from sitting at my desk the following morning knowing I’d had sex on my chair.
It soon fizzled out because we weren’t compatible, but it gave me an appetite for more. SINCE then, I’ve had more than one affair with colleagues. With one woman, we often travelled to meetings on trains.
Train toilets aren’t known for their cleanliness — though it’s not something either men o.
