In a relationship, putting in constant effort is important. We need to create a space so that the partner feels valued, loved, heard and seen. Every relationship has its own set of rituals of connection and intimacy.
"Relationship rituals are a great way to regularly check in with your partner and to make time for connection. You can create a ritual organically without realising or deciding on one together. Either way, the power comes from consistently practicing the ritual and making time and space for regular connection," wrote Therapist Lucille Shackleton.
Morning or evening rituals: Connecting at the beginning or at the end of the day to check on each other and having a moment of intimacy before getting on with work. (Unsplash) Weekend ritual: We should dedicate time to the relationship during the weekends and ensure to spend quality time together – be it watching a movie together or going for a walk. Leaving ritual: We should start the process of saying goodbyes properly.
We should take time and have a farewell ritual before leaving for work. (Unsplash) Returning ritual: After returning from work, we should not dismiss the partner, but instead take time to have a long hug or a conversation about how the day went.(pexel) Date ritual: We should plan dates, put in effort to make the other person feel special – dates are important as they help in developing more intimacy.
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