SAUCY SECRETS: I spotted my sister's boyfriend somewhere he should NOT be - do I tell her what I saw? Jana Hocking gives advice to Aussies with dark secrets READ MORE: My little boy looks just like my best mate By Jana Hocking for Daily Mail Australia Published: 17:03 EDT, 15 June 2024 | Updated: 17:15 EDT, 15 June 2024 e-mail 2 View comments Dear Jana, I saw my sister's boyfriend on a gay dating app. I don't want to out him but I think she deserves to know. Do I tell her? Nicholas Dear, dear, Nicholas.
Throw your phone in a river and walk away very quickly. This is not your 'outing' to do. Perhaps he's a little curious, or perhaps he's thrown himself right into the gay dating app scene.
Who knows. Not you, so I would keep right out of it. What I would be doing instead, is having a quiet word with him.
Show him your evidence and offer him a safe space to open up. Perhaps he's feeling societal pressures to stay firmly in the closet and if so, that's just bloody sad. Or if he's doing the dirty on your sister at least you can give him a bit of a scare and hopefully push him towards having his own conversation with her.
The one thing I know is it is never our job to 'out' someone. They will do it themselves when they are ready. Jana Hocking shares her best Saucy Secrets - and trademark sassy advice Dear Jana, Last night I drank a few too many margaritas and hooked up with my best friend's ex-husband.
I can't even blame it on the alcohol, I've liked him for years and we've always .
