Is the Facebook forum 'Are We Dating The Same Guy?' a legitimate way for women to expose unfaithful lotharios...
or a mean-spirited gossip site that's unfair on men? By Kathryn Knight Published: 02:20, 20 May 2024 | Updated: 02:21, 20 May 2024 e-mail View comments Several months into her steady relationship with a hunky web designer, Emily Robertson* was hopeful she'd found her life partner. Handsome and attentive, Tom* was also fun and thoughtful, slipping handwritten notes into her handbag and springing romantic surprises on her. Her family and friends liked him, too.
There was just one chink in this otherwise near-perfect armour. 'Tom spent a lot of time on his phone, and sometimes he looked guilty or unsettled if I caught him unawares,' recalls Emily, a 31-year-old personal trainer. 'It started to get under my skin, and although I tried to convince myself I was overthinking it, I found myself wondering whether he was contacting other women.
' Over time, Tom's habit rattled her enough that she mentioned it to a friend, who pointed her in the direction of a regional Facebook group that might help put her latent fears to rest — or not. Charles Withers, a 30-year-old British man had been 'outed' by Facebook sleuths on the site after his estranged wife, Ashley McGuire, posted on forums across the U.S.
in a bid to trace the man she claimed had 'ghosted' her when she was pregnant It was called Are We Dating The Same Guy? — a forum which, as the name suggests, allows women to .
