I'm a TV relationship expert. But 24 hours after I got engaged a fan told me she'd slept with my fiance - and I never saw it coming, writes Michelle Elma By Michelle Elman For The Daily Mail Published: 21:09 EDT, 16 June 2024 | Updated: 21:09 EDT, 16 June 2024 e-mail View comments I’m a life coach known as the Queen Of Boundaries, meaning I teach people how to stop others from treating them badly. I’m also the best-selling author of four books on relationships.
And yet 24 hours after announcing my engagement to the man I loved, in April this year, I discovered from one of my Instagram followers that he had been cheating on me. My instinct was to hide away. I felt ashamed and embarrassed.
I had proudly shared the news of my engagement to more than half a million people on my social media — and now here I was, the expert on personal development, betrayed and humiliated. But I didn’t hide for long. After just three weeks, I chose publicly to share my story — the infidelity, the heartbreak, all of it.
Michelle Elman is a life coach known as the Queen Of Boundaries, where she teaches people how to stop others from treating them badly I posted a video on Instagram declaring ‘I am no longer engaged’ and explained why. As resident life coach on ITV’s This Morning, I also went on national television to discuss it. It was hard to do, certainly.
But it felt right. So many people in the public eye have been cheated on, and yet it’s rarely spoken about. Typically, after .
