Nature designed humans for sexual pleasure in the playout for procreation. For humans to perpetuate themselves, s*xual pleasure becomes inevitable. It’s a fact of life that to keep engaging in an activity, pleasure stands at the forefront.
Without pleasure, many engagements will be experiencing disengagement. That is, human beings will not be actively engaged in certain activities. In essence, pleasure drives men and women in the activities they engage in.
That also is the soul of addiction. I remember this popular local parlance to addiction: “Mo n gbadun re, bi oyinbo ti n gbadun siga”, meaning, “I am enjoying you like a white man enjoys smoking.” This is what is called the habit of chain smoking noticed in white men living in our locality.
Is the same pleasure drive applicable to animals, I cannot tell, because I am not one. I speak only concerning human beings, of which I am one. Now to s*xual pleasure, especially in marriage.
It’s an issue of concern. Marriages have been endangered and many dissolved due to lack of s*xual pleasure. Couples quarrel over it, and it’s been a source of infidelity.
That’s why attention has always been given to the issue of s*xual pleasure in marital relationships. Any married spouse ignoring it or paying lip service to it does so to his or her peril. That’s why discussions about it have remained a recurring decimal.
Not only the discussion about it that is worth referencing, but the many antics engaged in by men and women to.
