You only live once, so make the most of it. We all make lists, from New Year’s resolutions through to keeping diaries, minutes of meetings and to-dos. A sex bucket list will add the sugar, the nice and all things spice to your life.
It can be a roadmap to your own pleasure and fulfilment. A sex bucket list does not have to be complicated, but it can be a fun exploration of every fantasy or naughty thought you have ever had. If you tick off the items with consenting partners, there will never be a dull period in your life between the sheets.
Just like you can have a list of goals to get to the corner office, so too your sex bucket list can be the checklist of pleasure. It all starts with a piece of paper, a pen and crystallising all the naughty thoughts and fantasies that you have had over the years. Life stage is irrelevant, but circumstance should dictate your inner sense of responsibility before creating a sex bucket list that is beyond your grasp; that will only lead to frustration.
Approach it like this Write up your sex bucket list when you are feeling hot under the collar. Fantasies will commit to paper much easier. Then review it when you are not feeling frisky.
Delete the adventures that may be too way-out for you or, if you are single, that may be unachievable. Never set yourself up for disappointment. Be inspired and do not be afraid to express your deepest desires in your sex bucket list despite considering reality.
Everyone has a fantasy or ten that they had bee.