A fashion stylist named Ashley has gone viral for her candid post about being "very single ," attributing it to men being "terrified" of her beauty and intelligence . According to the New York Post, Ashley, who is also an artist on TikTok, often surprises people who learn she doesn’t have a boyfriend. She revealed she hasn’t been romantically pursued and hasn’t been intimate with anyone for eight months.
Hailing from Texas, Ashley believes her appearance has hindered her romantic prospects . Ashley claims her natural beauty and professional success make her intimidating to men, who prefer easier relationships. While some men show interest, she says they are either unavailable or not to her liking.
"So yes, I’m alone. I’m very, very, very, very single," she stated in a video captioned, "Lonely life when you know your worth." She suggests that men find her fantasy-like and intimidating.
Ashley’s experience isn’t unique; many believe their looks, intelligence, and success can negatively impact their dating lives. One commenter on her video mentioned the difficulty of being both pretty and smart, while another noted that men often end up resenting the very qualities they initially admired. However, some critics accused Ashley of being egotistical and self-centered.
In 2023, the concept of "pretty privilege" sparked debates online, highlighting both the perks and drawbacks of good looks. Some celebrated the free perks they received, while others lamented not being ta.