A woman has revealed her reason for filing for divorce from her husband. In a recent Reddit post shared to the popular “Am I The A**hole?” subreddit , one wife explained that throughout her relationship with her husband, even before they were married, he would tighten the lids on jars to the point where they were unable to be opened on her own. “It wasn’t a huge deal if he was there, but if I was alone, it was so annoying.

More times than I can count, I’ve opened a new jar of something because I couldn’t get the jar open,” she explained. She described this habit as a type of cycle where she would keep her anger inside until it reached a breaking point and have a meltdown over the jar lids until she calmed down and the cycle would repeat itself. “He initially claimed that he did it to ‘keep food fresh’.

After many arguments about it, and my insistence that I don’t believe it keeps anything fresh and even if it does make things last longer I don’t care if it means I can’t eat my freaking food when I want. I’ll just replace things that go bad because they are closed normally. Then the excuse was that it’s a habit,” the Reddit post continued.

Then one day her husband was out of the state for 10 days and once again couldn’t open a jar. She ended up running into her neighbor who offered to help her with anything she needed, so she had him attempt to open up all of the jars in her house. “He said that he’s heard me screaming about over tightened.