Dear Pastor, I am writing to you from America. I always read your column. It helps me to know what is going on in my beautiful island, Jamaica.
I am in my 60s but I long to return to Jamaica. My husband is older than me. He is Jamaican by birth, but he has no intention of returning.
I do not want to leave him because I know he will go astray, and I don't intend to have another man in my life. We have five children together; they visit Jamaica, but America is their home. They were all born here.
We have 10 grandchildren and they are all Americans. We have a property in Jamaica. We have relatives living in the house and whenever anything goes wrong, we send the money for them to repair it.
The last major thing we did was refurbish the bathroom. We told them that the bathroom should not be used at all; it should be kept so that when my husband and I are visiting, we can be comfortable. I have a niece living at the house, but we asked her to leave because the neighbour told us that she was using our house as a motel; she had one man after the other at the house at nights.
Our nearest neighbour is a Christian man who lives with his family and they would not lie on her. The niece said that whosoever told us that she is using our house as a motel, is lying. We did not call anybody's name, but we believe what we were told.
There were two other people in the house; they are very nice nephews. When we asked them about what she was doing, they said it is true that she has many male visi.