DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has moved into our motorhome and won’t tell me where he is. I’m convinced he is using it to have sex with his lover who is the same age as our eldest daughter. It is a bitter pill to swallow as we had so many happy family memories in the motorhome taking our children all around Europe.
I am 46 and my husband is 48. We have been together for almost 25 years and have two daughters aged 23 and 21. In the past he has messaged other women and ran up debts with no explanation.
He always made excuses that sounded believable and stupidly I fell for them all. Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors. Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page or email us at: deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk My suspicions began when he started taking the motorhome out for “day trips” on his own — a new development.
Then I came across paperwork for a loan he had taken out. He denied he was cheating for months, saying I was paranoid. But when I overheard him on the phone with a woman in the garden shed, the game was up.
It turned out he has been seeing her for over a year, since just after my mum died suddenly and our youngest was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. The day that I learned the truth, he moved into the motorhome and left. Now he refuses to tell me where he is.
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