Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are trying to work through their relationship troubles as they approach their two-year wedding anniversary . Just days after the 54-year-old singer and her movie star husband, 51, were spotted together for the first time in over a month , a person familiar with the couple shares that they are taking some time apart and figuring things out in order to see where the future takes them. A source tells ET, "Jen and Ben's relationship is not over yet, but they have been staying in separate homes and the tension has been high.

They are taking a second to figure out what each of them is going through and wants. Both of them have been very down." On Friday, Affleck was photographed by TMZ behind the wheel of his car, and eagle-eyed fans noticed his wedding band was missing from his ring finger.

The photos were taken outside a recital for Affleck's daughter, Seraphina, 15, whom he shares with ex-wife Jennifer Garner . They also share Violet, 18, and Samuel, 12. For her own part, the "Let's Get Loud" singer has 16-year-old twins, Emme and Max, with her ex-husband, Marc Anthony .

At the same event for Affleck and Garner's second child, Lopez -- who was also in attendance -- was seen wearing her wedding ring . She and Affleck spent time chatting in a parking lot outside, with Affleck carrying flowers. Amid their reported marital troubles, another source says the Good Will Hunting star is focused on his kids.

"Ben's priority is his family and well-being," the.