A man has been slammed for admitting he is cheating on his wife and while he knows it's wrong, he has no intention of stopping anytime soon. The 54-year-old has been in a relationship with his wife, 53, since college - but recently realised he isn't in love with her. Ultimately, he started looking for love elsewhere - and ended up falling for a woman at work.
In a harsh thread on Reddit : "The older I got, the more I realised that I'd conflated what I felt for her for actual romantic love. It didn't help that she gained a lot of weight as time went on. She just isn't the same girl I married.
" The software engineer went on to explain how he started training a new hire, called Jane*, at work a few years ago - and hit it off with her right off the bat. He said: "She's outgoing and charming and clever, and she made me feel like no other woman ever has before. Even though she was fresh out of college, she quickly became one of the best members of our team.
"I don't know, it's really hard to explain. I don't think I've ever felt a connection like this with another woman before. One thing led to another, and a few months after she was hired, I offered to walk her back to her car after a late-night work event at the office.
When we got to her car, she made an advance on me and I felt like I couldn't help myself. I let her kiss me, but after a moment I snapped out of it and excused myself." He kept the kiss a secret from his wife but no matter how hard he tried to 'forget' about Jane,.