One of the biggest mistakes we can make in relationships is not asking enough of the right questions. By asking these questions, you can discover what your partner needs and wants from you and your time together. Here are a few to try: “What can I help you with right now?” If you find yourself with some time on your hands, why not offer those moments to your mate as a loving gesture.

Most of us have too much on our plates, and an extra pair of hands can make a big difference in getting things done. Plus, doing things together can be bonding. “How can I show my love for you?” Most couples are good at saying the three little words, but actions speak even louder.

Perhaps your loved one will want a kiss, or perhaps it will be some help in the garden. Whatever their request, showing your love will make your partner feel cherished. “Is there one little thing about me that you would like me to change?” Yes, this question can start a serious conversation, but by using the word “little,” you can lighten it up significantly.

Sometimes we unconsciously do things that make our partner uncomfortable, but it’s not annoying enough for them to tell us. By asking this question, you can stop a little annoyance from becoming a big issue. “Is there someplace special you would like to go?” You may not be prepared to fly to Paris on the spur of the moment, but it’s nice to give the one you love the gift of picking somewhere they’d like to go with you.

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