There’s truly nothing like being on a only to find you (womp womp) have absolutely nothing to talk about. Whether you’ve been ~together forever~ or you’re still in the , it happens to the best of us. While sure, you could fill the void with small talk, asking your partner —about their likes, dislikes, fears, hopes, etc.
—is the key to strengthening your bond. In fact, introspective relationship questions will not only help you learn more about your lover, but it’ll ensure you never have to resort to discussing the weather during a ever again. “I know a lot of couples think that the biggest issue to look out for is conflict and whether or not they fight,” says , "but really, curiosity and showing interest in your partner is more potent for a than something like the absence of conflict, because that type of communication is the foundation for actually liking each other and having a friendship.
” Obvi, the types of Qs you gravitate toward will depend on your , the current situation, and the vibe you’re going for. For example: The light-hearted are (duh) perfect for the getting-to-know-you stage, but they can also be a great way to reconnect with your long-term partner down the line. Alternatively, that strike a more emotional chord can be a fantastic way to break down walls and get to know every version of your other half.
So, go on, ask these qs on ! ! During a ! As part of pillow talk! On ! When your flight is delayed and your phone is about to die and you ha.