Hi Haya! I’m a 23-year-old girl who loves to travel. I had been waiting to cross the age of 20 so that my dad would let me travel alone, but he is still very rigid about allowing me to do that because he thinks I might end up doing something wrong. I have assured him plenty of times that I have never done anything of that kind, nor will I do it now, I just want to travel and explore the world on my own for once.
We have argued over it several times, too. How do I convince him? — An aspiring traveller Dear aspiring traveller, It's wonderful to hear about your passion for travel, and it's clear you have a strong desire to explore the world. Navigating family dynamics, especially when it involves gaining independence, can indeed be challenging.
Let's explore some strategies to address this situation from both your perspective and your father's. Firstly, I encourage you to have an open conversation and communicate with your father. Take him into confidence and express how much traveling means to you.
Understanding his concerns is crucial, as his resistance likely stems from a place of love and concern for your safety. A calm and empathetic conversation can help you uncover his specific fears. Is he worried about your safety, the destinations you want to visit, or something else? Understanding his perspective can enable you to address his worries more effectively.
Involve your father in the process by presenting a well-prepared and detailed plan. Share your travel plans, inclu.
