Others, such as Candy.AI, provide highly sexualized interactions, including generated images and phone conversations with digital paramours. The allure of AI companions lies in their ability to provide “supernormal stimuli” — exaggerated versions of the qualities we find most desirable in a partner.
This concept, popularized by Dutch evolutionary biologist Nikolaas Tinbergen, refers to stimuli that elicit a stronger response than natural stimuli. AI companions offer an always-available, endlessly patient, and perfectly tailored partner, much like how junk food exploits our innate cravings for high-calorie sustenance. However, the potential ramifications of relying on AI companions for emotional fulfilment must be carefully considered.
An over-dependence on AI partners could hinder the development and maintenance of authentic human connections, as well as diminish individuals’ capacity for empathy, vulnerability, and the skills necessary to navigate the complexities of human relationships. Moreover, the long-term effects of outsourcing emotional labour to AI are yet to be fully understood. The emotional labour of managing one’s own emotions and those of others is a crucial aspect of building and maintaining relationships.
By consistently relying on AI companions for this labour, individuals may struggle to develop the emotional intelligence and resilience needed to cope with real-life challenges and form deep, meaningful connections with others. Despite these concern.
