The Australian government’s new campaign Consent Can’t Wait challenges us all to improve our understanding of consent. It asks a series of questions to illustrate this issue is more complex than simplistic “no means no” messaging. The campaign invites viewers to consider the nuances of consent , so we can raise these important issues with children and young people in our lives.
But what is a good age to start talking about consent? How do parents tackle such conversations when this information probably wasn’t readily discussed in our own upbringing? How it starts – early childhood (0–5 years) Small on-going conversations about consent that start early are best. At this age, children are becoming aware of their bodies, and this is a great time to start basic conversations around consent, body safety and boundaries. If you’re tickling or rough-housing with your child and they ask you to stop, respect this.
Similarly, you want your child to learn that they should listen to and respect the feelings of others. We should also not force a child to give a hug or a kiss to a family member if they don’t feel comfortable. Teaching them to be polite and respectful without having to cross their own personal boundaries is key.
Bath time can also be a great setting to discuss how children’s bodies are their own and the basics of boundaries and privacy. Childhood and primary school (6–11 years) As children enter school, their social networks start to expand and the pote.
