Dear Pastor, Please for your advice. I am 40 years old and I have been married for 10 years. I have two children with my husband and he has been very good to me.
I have not been well, but my husband is with me all the way. I know my illness has caused a great strain on him, but he does not complain. I have learned what true love is about.
Sometimes when I am doing things around the house, he stops me and tells me to go and rest. I wonder sometimes if my husband is cheating on me. How can he do without making love with me for months? I asked him about it and he said that I should be ashamed of myself.
I see girls around him whenever I go to church and I feel very jealous. I have lost one of my breasts and I asked my husband how he feels about me having only one. He said I look just as beautiful with one.
I am not sure my husband is speaking the truth. We have a helper and I had to beg her not to wear certain clothes to work because I do not want my husband to be tempted to go with her. She is a lovely young lady with a beautiful figure.
After talking to her, she asked my husband if he was attracted to her and he told her no. She told him that I told her not to wear certain garments to come to work. My husband was very upset with me and I felt ashamed.
I should not have told the girl what to wear to work because I was afraid that my husband would be tempted to have an affair with her. This girl gave us notice that she would leave the job and I had to beg her to stay. My husband.
