LGBTQ+ couples share thoughts on the importance of being legally married by JELLYN GUECO As we celebrate Pride Month, the Pinoy LGBTQ+ community continues to fight for equal rights including the right to marry. While many countries around the world already recognize same-sex marriage, the Philippines has yet to pass a law that would allow this. Despite this setback, there are LGBTQ+ Filipinos who have been able to legally tie the knot in countries where same-sex marriage is allowed, as they are already citizens or residents there.
Let's hear from some of these couples as they share their insights on the importance of being legally married. Rex (he/him) and Diego (he/him)—Madrid, Spain The giddiness and excitement of being newlyweds is still evident in Rex's eyes with barely a month since their beautiful ceremony in Madrid. When asked why he decided to get married, Rex said that there is beauty in knowing they have given their commitment in front of their loved ones and are legally recognized as a married couple.
"After six years of being together, being able to make Diego my emergency contact is a huge step for me. It may sound simple but it's amazing to have someone call my husband—someone who will be able to legally speak for me and decide for me when I'm not able to," Rex explains. At their wedding, Rex's dad walked him down the aisle, something that he never thought would happen.
Like most parents, Rex knew that they were worried that he'd grow old alone and get bulli.
