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Navigating the world of Japanese online dating can feel like deciphering a new language — because it quite literally is. To help you avoid swiping right on a disaster, here’s a crash course in must-know slang and jargon. Think of it as your cheat sheet to understanding the romantic battlefield, one term at a time.

Useful Japanese Dating Words to Know Kareshi: Boyfriend. Kanojo: Girlfriend. Explanation: Basic but crucial.



Knowing these words ensures you know what kind of relationship someone’s talking about. Meaning: Looking for a boyfriend. Explanation: Literally translates to “boyfriend recruiting.

” Perfect for those openly advertising their search for Mr. Right. Meaning: Hookup-focused.

Explanation: “Yari” means “to do something” while “moku” means “goal.” This user’s aim is to do some action. You get the idea.

Meaning: Pickup artist. Explanation: Smooth talker at the bar, looking to chat up strangers. Beware the charmers.

Meaning: Fake profiles affiliated with the app. Explanation: Named after cherry blossoms for their fleeting, deceptive beauty. These profiles are here today, gone tomorrow, and aim to keep you engaged and spending more time (and money) on the platform.

Meaning: Scammers. Fake profiles not affiliated with the app. Explanation: “Gyousha” means “operator” or “business entity” in Japanese.

These independent actors have malicious intent, unlike sakura. They aim to deceive you into giving money or personal information. Me.

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