Eniola grew up hating her father because he treated her mother badly. Her parents constantly quarreled in front of the children, which often led to physical fights. Because of this, Eniola developed a deep dislike for men.
At 23, she has refused to date any man. “I grew up in a toxic home. No day passed when my parents wouldn’t quarrel.
They quarreled over little things. My mom was always at the receiving end. She was a stay-at-home mom and practically depended on my dad for everything.
Whenever they quarreled, my dad would not allow my mom to cook or have access to the kitchen. When I was younger, I didn’t understand the whole matter. I thought it was my mother who was always making my dad angry, I thought she caused them to quarrel.
But as I grew up, I began to understand that my dad never loved my mom. “She was betrothed to him by his mother. He agreed to marry her to bear children.
Their relationship was bad. They lived like strangers in the same space. There was no love or any kind of relationship.
Their marriage continued to deteriorate every day. I watched them drift apart. My dad tried to make me hate my mother as a child; he would ask me not to help my mother with house chores, and then I was always happy whenever he was at home.
My mother wouldn’t dare send me on errands. “When I got older, I realised that my father was the bad one. He cheated on my mum openly and never hid any of his girlfriends.
And he would even bring them home to spite my mother. And.
